Yesterday is exactly what it is Yesterday!

Living in the present because you have to right? I mean you do know yesterday is exactly what it is and that’s gone right? The only thing you could keep from yesterday is a moment you know a memory an experience no matter if it’s good nor bad pass nor failure all it is~is a memory you take with you to tomorrow.

Yesterday could also be a learning curve as well a tool that can help you make better choices in the present like for an example, you didn’t do a selfless act yesterday but today you decided to hold the door open for that old lady or young woman don’t matter, but the act and the improvement you made because you know once the day is gone it’s gone an you can’t have it back………

Living in the present

“The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.”

Living in the present moment means no longer worrying about what happened in the past and not fearing what will happen in the future. It means enjoying what’s happening now and living for today.

Remove unneeded possessions

Minimalism forces you to live in the present. Removing items associated with past memories frees you and allows you to stop living in the past. Once the past no longer has power, you can begin to live in the moment.

Smile

Each day is full of endless possibilities! Start it with a smile. You are in control of your attitude every morning, keep it optimistic and expectant. Be intentional about it and you’ll find yourself doing it every day without even realizing it.

Fully appreciate the moments of today

Soak in as much of today as you possibly can – the sights, the sounds, the smells, the emotions, the triumph, and the sorrow. These are in our daily lives but we often forget to take them in and truly appreciate them.

Forgive past hurts

If you are harboring resentment towards another human being because of past hurts, choose to forgive and move on. The harm was their fault, but allowing it to impact your mood today is yours. Let go and choose to be present in the moment instead.

OUR MISSION STATEMENT
WE ARE WHO WE ARE, BUT YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE!

FORGIVENESS AND LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANWSER

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Can you Love yourself, But hate the things you Do?

SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE!

I ask that because you ever felt like man I really love myself so much why I act this way or do things that’s not of character or even do things out of the ordinary!?!

Like I really hate somethings about me that I don’t agree with at all at first until accepted meself, but only to pay attention to myself enough that in reality I love myself that’s the whole reasoning of wanting to improve meself my well being you know my character! I go into slumps sometimes overthinking this that’s apart of having ” The Thought Process ” which is super powers not an illness rather some agree of not!

“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.” – Oscar Wilde

There’s a lot of emphasis in our culture on romantic love. A lot of people think that finding the right partner will somehow make them “whole”, fill an inner void, and solve all of their problems.

However, another person can never do all of these things for you. You have to do them for yourself. That is, you have to fall in love with yourself. Falling in love with yourself will allow you to do all of the following:

  • Give yourself what you need, instead of waiting for others to do so.
  • Embrace both your strengths and your weaknesses.
  • Be gentle with yourself when you make a mistake or fail.
  • Be comfortable with doing things alone.
  • Know you’re in your corner, even if nobody else is.
  • Know that you’re enough.
  • Have the confidence to go after what you really want.

Sounds great, doesn’t it? So, how does one fall in love with oneself?

See Yourself Through the Eyes of Someone Who Loves You

Think of someone who loves you—this can be your spouse, your child, your best friend, or an admirer. Picture that person standing there, looking at you.

  • What do they see?
  • How would they describe you?
  • What would they say they appreciate about you?
  • What would they say makes you a great friend, romantic partner, parent, and so on?
  • Why do they love you?

This exercise will allow you to focus on your good points, instead of dismissing them or taking them from granted. It will also help you realize how much there is in you to love.

If There’s Something You Don’t Like About Yourself, Change It

If there’s something you don’t like about somebody else, there’s very little you can do about it. However, if there’s something you don’t like about yourself, you can change it.

I grew up with a very critical father, so I have a tendency to be critical myself. A couple of years ago I decided that I didn’t like this about myself. Therefore, I decided to change it. I began monitoring what I was thinking and I stopped myself every time I realized that I was judging someone.

In addition, when I was talking to others I started being more careful with what I said to them, and how I said it, so that it wouldn’t sound critical. As a result of this effort, I am now much less critical than I used to be.

That is, I’m much closer to the kind of person I want to be, which makes me love myself more. Fall in love with yourself by working on yourself.

OUR MISSION STATEMENT
WE ARE WHO WE ARE, BUT YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE!

FORGIVENESS AND LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANWSER

“Eat like you love yourself. Move like you love yourself. Speak like you love yourself. Act like you love yourself.”

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Love for Music, Helps ” The Thought Process” is what I call it?

It started when I first saw at least of what I could remember Prince performing on stage and of course Michael Jackson was doing his favorite dance move here’s one of them the moon walk and later heard it was Jeffrey Daniel, a former “Solid Gold” hoofer who was renowned in the R&B/dance community who attracted attention what was then referred to as “the backslide” before he taught it to Michael. “Michael Jackson music had a impact on my life!”

That’s the love I have always had and still have til this day~ and always wanted be a performer so I started performing, but nothing major at least not far as the crowd them legends had and have for the ones thats still with us today or just feel it you know be there the passion for the music took me on a roller coaster, Later Started recording, writing just went to a different level because music to me it’s universal it helps me with my “thought process” some will say mental illness and it’s cool for me to talk about it’s nothing to be afraid of writing is the most beautiful thing ever when it comes to that and music just like a cherry on top of a ice cream.

“The Thought Process” is amazing once owing it ~ it’s like having super powers, you could be a villain I mean you are who you are but you can be whatever you want to be! Stand firm and it’s yours and throw them headphones on or play your record player if you still have one and kids charge them ipods, iphones up and can’t forget about android users and listen to music you enjoy whatever it is because music are beautiful sounds in your ear………

OUR MISSION STATEMENT
WE ARE WHO WE ARE, BUT YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE!

FORGIVENESS AND LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANWSER

“Anybody can look at you. It’s quite rare to find someone who sees the same world you see.” 
― John Green

“I found that with depression, one of the most important things you can realize is that you’re not alone. You’re not the first to go through it, you’re not gonna be the last to go through it,” — Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson

“There is hope, even when your brain tells you there isn’t.” ― John Green

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Broke People = Broken Within

Yes you would think being broke means you have no funds and I mean that’s one way to look at it if you on the surface but let me take your thoughts a little bit deeper because money is only energy and the way you think about it could mean that you have negative impact towards it like for example more money means more problems that thought pattern been out here for who knows how long an as kids we hear those a lot from our loves ones, friends etc……

So, Growing up hearing money is the root of all evil and seeing people go to the work for it had me myself thinking like why they working if money is the root to all evil, so that bothered me left me broken within for years because I believed that thought pattern and really had no other choice too it’s apart of my upbringing until I started a business and I realize I could use that root.

Now going through different phases in my life showed me how I should change the way I feel about been broke you know broken within and the way for me to do that is to change my way of thinking and to know that it’s not my fault it’s not your fault is the first step of me & you putting myself and yourself back together, so I start saying more money means you can take care more of your problems, or money combat evil wait here’s one if money is the root to all evil well let me have the root then that way I have control over evil and you would be amaze how you are reprogramming yourself and not allowing yourself to be broken within everything energy base and other seasoning as well!

What happened to you was not your fault.

It was not something you asked for, it was not something you deserved.

What happened to you was not fair.

You were merely collateral damage on someone else’s warpath, an innocent bystander who got wrecked out of proximity.


We are all traumatized by life, some of us from egregious wrongdoings, others by unprocessed pain and sidelined emotions. No matter the source, we are all handed a play of cards, and sometimes, they are not a winning hand.

Yet what we cannot forget is that even when we are not at fault, healing in the aftermath will always fall on us — and instead of being burdened by this, we can actually learn to see it as a rare gift.

Healing is our responsibility because if it isn’t, an unfair circumstance becomes an unlived life.

Healing is our responsibility because unprocessed pain gets transferred to everyone around us, and we are not going to allow what someone else did to us to become what we do to those we love.

Healing is our responsibility because we have this one life, this single shot to do something important.

Healing is our responsibility because if we want our lives to be different, sitting and waiting for someone else to make them so will not actually change them. It will only make us dependent and bitter.

Healing is our responsibility because we have the power to heal ourselves, even if we have previously been led to believe we don’t.

Healing is our responsibility because we are uncomfortable, and discomfort almost always signals a place in life in which we are slated to rise up and transform.

Healing is our responsibility because every great person you deeply admire began with every odd against them, and learned their inner power was no match for the worst of what life could offer.

Healing is our responsibility because “healing” is actually not returning to how and who we were before, it is becoming someone we have never been someone stronger, someone wiser, someone kinder.

When we heal, we step into the people we have always wanted to be. We are not only able to metabolize the pain, we are able to affect real change in our lives, in our families, and in our communities. We are able to pursue our dreams more freely. We are able to handle whatever life throws at us, because we are self-efficient and assured. We are more willing to dare, risk, and dream of broader horizons, ones we never thought we’d reach.

The thing is that when someone else does something wrong and it affects us, we often sit around waiting for them to take the pain away, as though they could come along and undo what has been done.

We fail to realize that in that hurt are the most important lessons of our lives, the fertile breeding ground upon which we can start to build everything we really want.

We are not meant to get through life unscathed.

We are not meant to get to the finish line unscarred, clean and bored.

Life hurts us all in different ways, but it is how we respond, and who we become that determines whether a trauma becomes a tragedy, or the beginning of the story of how the victim became the hero.

OUR MISSION STATEMENT
WE ARE WHO WE ARE, BUT YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE!

FORGIVENESS AND LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANWSER

Trauma Is Not Your Fault, But Healing Is Your Responsibility

Hard work vs Talent & kids picking a Different hero

First of all Kids looking at the popularity of things and that’s cool, but really don’t have a clue on how things really works, so the value becomes we want the shining things, the fast cars and when in reality it’s all for the eye to see and kids not picking up hard work and thinking their talent will get them there alone where you might have this kid over here who’s hero has value and work ethic and little sprinkle of talent and very successful at what he or she does….

So, Kids picking a different hero not off what they achieve or have because that means nothing compared to what you contribute to whatever business or industry you in…..
Hard work out weighs talent only because they have the drive to know if they are lacking in one area only to know they can be unstoppable in another which is hard work!

“Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.”

Success doesn’t come easy.

Even the most dedicated entrepreneur sometimes finds it tough to stay on track. You’ll battle things beyond your control and encounter issues you couldn’t have predicted. So, how do you keep your eyes on the prize? How do you make sure the struggle doesn’t divert you from your ultimate goal?

Allow the words of those who have gone before us to motivate you and keep you focused. Learn from others who have walked the same path and share in their hard-fought lessons.

OUR MISSION STATEMENT
WE ARE WHO WE ARE, BUT YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE!

FORGIVENESS AND LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANWSER

“I’m a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have of it.” -Thomas Jefferson, American Founding Father

 

“Success isn’t always about greatness. It’s about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come.” –Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, actor

 

“Obstacles can’t stop you. Problems can’t stop you. Most of all, other people can’t stop you. Only you can stop you.” –Jeffrey Gitomer; author, speaker, and business trainer

 

Leaving your Comfort Zone

Leaving your comfort zone isn’t easy as it looks or sounds, but for the ones that did DO IT LIKE NIKE in between those lines is their story, so before you judge someone, or anyone  by standing outside looking in instead of being inside looking outward we assume their come up or whatever they got successful in we think it was given and they had no struggle to get there, but in reality they did, they was once in your shoes meaning they did whatever it took gave they all until that light bulb came on and realize we gotta leave our comfort zone!

Leaving your comfort zone to achieve the goals you sought out to achieve is almost saying you will have to put up a fight with yourself first because you will tell yourself, you can’t make it, you leaving behind your loves ones, or it’s a scary world, you not ready you know all the doubts, fear or whatever the case might be you have to put up a fight but deep down inside of you, you know that burning desire you have it’s like fire ants in your stomach  and you must do whatever it takes to get it out of you that alone should be the reason you must conquer yourself and leave your comfort zone not because of the riches but because of your purpose you have and it will pay itself off.

The Conversation I had with my mom before leaving from under her nest because she seen and knew also what she gave birth too was a gift a prayer that she been praying before coming into this beautiful world that I had a purpose which we all do and in order for you to figure it out and give birth to it you must LEAVE YOUR COMFORT ZONE! no matter who counts you out, no matter if your teachers give up on you, even if some of your family members envy you, you must Leave your comfort zone and that day was my light bulb so me writing you today telling you everything is in arm reach, but you must give birth to those fire ants thats in your stomach only to know you must………… LEAVE YOUR COMFORT ZONE!!!!!

OUR MISSION STATEMENT
WE ARE WHO WE ARE, BUT YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE!

FORGIVENESS AND LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANWSER

“You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone.”
― Roy T. Bennett

“Do Not Lie to Yourself

We have to be honest about what we want and take risks rather than lie to ourselves and make excuses to stay in our comfort zone.”
― Roy T. Bennett

Higher Forces
Come into my body
Give me strength, guidance and protection
And please God,
Put a strong protective Light around my body,
And in the name of Jesus,
Cancel all negative thoughts and actions
that are being directed to me,
and eliminate the enemies power
to do any evil to me.
So shall it be.

In Jesus Christ’s name I pray,
who lives and reigns with the Father and the Holy Spirit
One God
forever and ever.

Amen~

Rest well MY LOVE’S UNCLE AND GRANDMOTHER!!! IN TEARS!!!!!!!

Don’t missed The Wave, but what if you do, is it Over?

Lately I’ve been down or felt almost as if something or someone  hit my aura causing my energies to be unbalanced.
I’m sharing this because of , one it helps me by releasing all the thoughts that’s not mines and whatever negative energies I have and just wipes them away. {day by day process noted!}
Also it’s someone that maybe going through the same thing and to let you all know you are not alone in this and before any of this you must know you are wonderful people, Beautiful people and have a part in this beautiful thing we called the universe noted that and repeat this type of love everyday because you should and it’s also purpose!
Heck I missed the wave but I’m here telling you missing it allowed me to see what I’ve missed and through that humble experience alone showed me the beauty in it which is protruded.
We are all artist that hoping we have the experiences through the art that we paint on a daily basis, so regardless of what you going through know that you have a part and also a brush and a canvas to paint on…..

OUR MISSION STATEMENT
WE ARE WHO WE ARE, BUT YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE!

FORGIVENESS AND LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANWSER

“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start.” – Nido Qubein

Higher Forces
Come into my body
Give me strength, guidance and protection
And please God,
Put a strong protective Light around my body,
And in the name of Jesus,
Cancel all negative thoughts and actions
that are being directed to me,
and eliminate the enemies power
to do any evil to me.
So shall it be.

In Jesus Christ’s name I pray,
who lives and reigns with the Father and the Holy Spirit
One God
forever and ever.

Amen~